Thursday, August 23, 2012

Budding Artist


Elliot is over the moon excited that we just found out that her artwork was selected to be on the cover of her elementary school's handbook for this year.  There was a school wide optional contest and Elliot worked hard on her drawing.  It then sat around for a week and on the last day to submit an entry, I remembered we did not turn it in.  It was 5PM.  I had a fever.  It was POURING rain.  Patty had gone home.  Kassi & Ben were no where near home.  And I forgot the school was unlocked for the after-care program...so I told Elliot forget it, we'd just enter next year.  She was crushed.  I mean, she is in kindergarten, she made the picture, it was not her job to remember to turn it in - it was mine.  

She had forgotten about the contest, but now it was the biggest most devastating thing ever to not be a part.  So I sucked it up, buckled all 3 of them into car seats while I stood in the sheets of rain - drove the 3 blocks to the school, broke the law by leaving them all strapped in the car in the parking lot (do I leave the keys in with the AC on and risk them being driven away, or lock the car, take the keys and hope nobody notices them in the tinted windows? I don't remember which I chose) while I ran into the side door of the school and coolly slipped her artwork into the overflowing envelope.  This was last May.  We totally forgot about it.  And then we got the message below.  If you click on the "click here" it will take you to the PDF of the whole handbook and Elliot's is on the front cover.  Oh wait, Ben figured out how to post it:




Yay Elliot!  

PS - Ben and I need to stop making fun of the editors who let slip the "Your never a Stanger at Angier" on last year's cover.  "Hello Kettle? It's the Pot.  You are black."  

Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Groups Groupies and Groupers

It's been a busy summer.  Especially for being so low key.  Our favorite parts have been visiting friends and family, reconnecting, seeing how the kids have changed, reintroducing the kids to each other - seeing how nicely they all play together, and hoping that lasts for a long long time.  Too much to catch up on in any coherent way, but take a look - you might be in these shots too.  

Chicago friends at Beth & Lach's playhouse:  Sam, Sam, Alice, Harry, Elliot, Max & Julia


On stage at the Lyric Opera house with cousin Caroline after her amazing production of Beauty and the  Beast.  We were happy to have Caroline stay with us the week she was in Boston, though with our schedules, we hardly got to see her - She was getting home when we were going to bed.  We were leaving for work before she had to be up.  But my beauties fell in love instantly and continue to be mesmerized by her.  And you can see why.

Papa, Caroline, Mommy, Ami, Elliot, Samantha

Julia laughing at and being covered in lipstick kisses at dinner.

Cousin Seanie and Elliot at Alex's graduation.

Illinois cousins all lined up:  Julia, Alex, Seanie, Elliot, Samantha, Emilee, Andrew


 The ladies watching some football antics at cousin Alex's high school graduation party.
Grandma, Mommy, Elliot, Auntie Jessie, Julia


 Poolside at the beach:  Auntie Laura, Ami, Auntie Jane, Cousin Janet

 MA cousins at OBX building away:  Sam, Julia, Elliot, Zoe, Uncle Jamie, Milesy, Alex, Alden


 Lining up to watch the talent show:  Uncle Allen, Auntie Jane, Auntie Laura, The Bart-man.  Below some Shore Patrol:  Cousin David, Dominic, Cousin Laura




And then on to the UCLA Cousin reunion.  5 ladies all met in graduate school.  All married men from the same graduate school, and then proceeded to populate the world.  13 in all so far...I think we are done counting but am holding out hope for a couple more surprises (not from us!).  

Above lined up in oldest to youngest, except we don't know which twin came first: Angelina, Antonia, Benjamin, Noah, Adam, Serena, Callista, Elliot, William, Reed, Samantha, Grace, Julia.  


Our 11th girl reunion in 12 years:  Elissa, Patricia, Sherie, Jen, Anne - looking good ladies:  especially for an impromptu end of the night "surprise photo".  

Tuesday, July 03, 2012

Little Mudder

I think we have a new contender for the Dirty Girl Mud Run in 2013.  And I also think that we might need a pool.  Since I have no pictures of my own to share about the Dirty Girl Mud Run I was supposed to do in Chicago last week.  I bring you pictures of my own little Mudders after dinner last night and a link to Kate's fantastic photo account of the Mother Muckers' race to the end.  And will spare you the gory details of the stupid airline (Spirit) that cancelled my flight and promised to get me there by Sunday after the race.   And will add that Samantha did this on her own, without prompting (in fact against my wishes, but in the end, she was right...it did look like fun!).



Saturday, June 30, 2012

Hotel, Motel, Wequassett Innnnnn!



Summer!
Look at this little watermelon.  So proud to try on her sister's goggles.  And show off her underbite silly face.




Ahhhhhh ... last weekend we went on YPO's Family weekend to Cape Cod.  It was kinda like our first trip to the Cape, which is kinda embarrassing since we live just over an hour away from it.  But instead of Camp YPO, this year it was posh resort living in Chatham (that's the elbow of the Cape).  The weekend was a-mahz-ing (anyone watching Happy Endings getting that reference?).  Do I have to remind you that this is NOT how we typically roll?  High end-posh resorting?  I mean, we adapted quite readily and grew accustomed very quickly.  The Wequassett Inn would not normally pop up in my travel searches, just by virtue of it being so far above our typical price point.  But because somebody's somebody knows the owner/company/something and worked like crazy to put on a fantastic weekend and a steep discount, subsidy, something, I don't know what happened behind the scenes actually, but it was a bargain by comparison.  I mean we still had to pay and all, but you know how I love me a bargain!

It was only 2.5 days away for us, but was jam packed and relaxing too.  We were off to a rocky start arriving early to use the pool, but we could not yet check into our room and I had a conference call about Brazil that I had to be on AT 4PM on a Friday.  Grrrrr.....  But then, here was my view for the call - and thank goodness I was not the primary speaker.  And yes, that may or may not be a pina colada on the table.

This is our room seconds before the bomb went off in it, which was basically seconds after I arrived from my call.  Not a remarkable picture, but wanted to capture the essence of it.  Room 25 is a "Waterview, Double Queen".  


Samantha is the bunny whisperer.  Little conejos appeared magically on every path we walked with her.  This little guy appeared when she fell and scraped her knee and sat down on that tiny grass patch to cry.  I turned back to help her and noticed this bunny RIGHT next to her.  And he didn't hop away at the fray.  The rest of trip, bunnies really did appear every time Samantha walked the grounds.


Julia did not get to stay in the big girl bed.  That is not why she is crying.  She is crying probably because she was off her schedule, traded her nap for pool time and then was kept up late at trivia night on the tennis courts with YPO way past her bedtime.  But that bed does look posh, no?


This is our private deck off our room looking out into a little cove.  Now tell me, I have the fanciest little daughters around.  I mean, go to a soccer game, and they are all dolled up.  Go to a family dinner at a nice place and tell them it is going to be fancy and we want to look nice, and they appear wearing SNEAKERS with dresses.  Without socks - my favorite.  All those sandals we fight about you wearing when they are not appropriate and you tantrum over sneakers?  Fine, call it the pina colada, call it lazy parenting, call it letting go of the small stuff, but wear the sneakers to the party if it makes you happy.  


This is as close as we got to a nice picture of all the girls.   It was hot.  We needed dinner.  And bedtime.

Julia has not traveled as much as her sisters, but she is adjusting and figuring out that her Pack n Play is about the only resemblance to "normal" when we are on the road.


We went seal watching.  This pic is at the dock and we were waiting for Julia's life jacket to arrive.  Below, on the sand bar to the right of Samantha is a whole island of seals just chilling on the sand bar. 



Our afternoon activity took us to a private island.  We did not really have a heads up on what to expect with that, so were not sure what to expect.  It was a huge sand bar island with NOTHING on it - except our large party of YPO families (30 families maybe?) and they brought every imaginable party comfort to the island:  umbrellas, chairs, towels, bartenders, steel drummer to make it sound Carribean.  Some event host DJ to make us play "Minute to Win It" type games against the other families.  But they did not bring a bathroom (no plumbing on the island...really nothing but beautiful sand).  But, they planned for this bathroom scenario too: they brought a yacht.  It is owned by one of the families at the weekend.  And was in effect, the bathroom boat.  Which required a shuttle boat to get to.  Which made it a long lead time from when you leave to go to the bathroom to when you actually get there.  Which is funny when one of your daughters runs up and says "i have to go right now!"  Maybe they just wanted to ride a boat to the bathroom boat and see if Beyonce or Jay-Z were on board.

Speaking of on board:  Elliot really loved paddle boarding and was quite good at it!

We did manage one afternoon nap:  after seal watching and before the island.  All of us in one room.   Julia was not having it.  Cried herself to sleep for 90 seonds.  or so I thought.  When I popped up to see her, I found her here.  She had reached the counter, found some peanut butter cheese crackers and was having herself a snack in bed.  And then she put herself to sleep.  She's a good kiddo.

On our balcony again.  Self portrait.

So after the island excursion, there was a clam bake on the pool deck.  Well first there was a kids buffet.  After the kids ate, a creature teacher guy in safari uniform came and set up about 20 exotic grody creepy crawly reptiley things to entertain the kids so the parents could eat.  While Ben & I were digging into our lobster and champagne ... and not really relaxing if I am to be honest, since we are on a pool deck and Julia had already eaten and was fiesty and on the run playing hide and seek with us.  But all good, I mean, really good.  Until we notice the tornado storm clouds rolling in.  Apparently Reptile guy saw it too and released the kids to their parents in case he had to rapid fire save some tarantulas, snakes and alligators.  A wave of kids came rushing into the tables screaming "storm! storm!"  Samantha found us and was terrified.  I mean crying like we left her alone and monsters were chasing her.  Hysterical.  Mind you this is just a cloud in the sky, but you would think the Apocolypse was coming as the kids stampeded us.  Then the wind picked up.  Strong gust added with the 40 kid panic around us and we all started scooping kids and plates and running for cover.  In the midst of this, Samantha stops crying from her freak out and plain as day says, "Oh! Is that Lobster, Daddy?" and pops a handful into her mouth.  She finished the bite. Swallowed.  And then went back to wailing about the storm.  We went into the restaurant's interior for about 5 minutes.  Then the cloud passed.  And that was it.  We came back out and Ben tried to find more barbecued pork to eat when they reset up the buffet.  But by now the kids were our charges, so Ben sat and fed all our little birdies, who apparently have good taste and would have preferred the clam bake to the kiddie buffet.
Yep, don't mind the weather in the background, this crew is going to finish their party.  And their pork.